My version

La la la la....this is my masterpiece! No need to get from IKEA! All from SSF :)

Excellento!! And although I bought a glue gun, I think using double sided tape is much easier! According to SSF sales lady, the candle can last up to max 4 hours. Wahh....of course, have to test it out la. Must also make sure the ribbon and butterfly (esp butterfly) would not be on fire!

Romantic Candles Deco

As advised by the florist, I went bridey shopping at IKEA. I was dissapointed that the red coloured tealight candles were sold-out; and the cheapest candle holder cost me about RM 1.90 and it wasn't very pretty. Never mind, bought some as samples to try out at home.

Look at this ad in the papers. It matches my theme perfectly!

But if I can't get the red tealight candles, I have to do with whites. And hmm..it won't be pretty. My girlfriend suggested that I do a little "brush" on the glass with a red. Ok, will try it out with my glass painting tools!

*Ahem* I think I left the glass at her house :P

Let's look at the costings...RM 1.90 (glass) + RM 0.43 (candle) = RM 2.33 per set. I need 3 sets per table, and there are 20 tables! At this very moment, I am thankful for the number of tables I have :P
Although, I have to really filter my guests, but it makes planning and spending much easier cuz there aren't too MANY tables to do. :)

Favor Box

After rounds of shopping, internet surfing, sleepless nights...I finally DECIDED on my wedding favor box. Originally wanted to DIY, but worked out the cost to be so much more than buying off the shelves. The first intention was to present something that guests will keep...ah but then....it is so difficult to please all the guests. There are men, women, kids. Young ones, old ones.

So, no more um-ahh...I bought the box from SSF. And then, bought the ribbon. And voila. Cute little box is being done up! And it cost me, a little less than RM 0.70 each! Ta da......

Tea Ceremony

This is the only tradition that I somehow would insist to be done. The Tea Ceremony. It is when you officially introduce your other half to the entire family members. The Ah-Yees, Khau-Foos, etc, etc. Not only those that are elder, but younger ones as well. Shaking hands to "officially" introduce your other half. No more unofficial title of "Gor Gor" or "Jeh jeh" or whatever.

No matter how I adore the tea ceremony, I always find it a little too *ahem* "un"-hygienic. You see, almost everyone drinks from the same tea cup. Yes, it is washed, but darn, in that small little bowl? Some hardly even change the water :P Imagine those lips that smacked on to the little cup. Eww.

Ok, no sweat. I am not the one drinking it. Close one eye lah.

Then one day, while doing a little bridey shopping, this was what I found:-

I grabbed one packet, consisting 50 small little red "Hei" cups! And cost only RM 4.80! Wahh..cheap! As I mentioned to mum, she too agrees that we serve using paper cups...except of course, the one to my MUM :)
Haa...yeah...the one to her must be the special one! No paper cups for her!!

And I bet, the rest of my uncles and aunties would be glad! They have long joked about these cups having being "recycled" and how, each time, they would just "pretend" to "drink" the tea! Well..at my wedding, they can finish the whole cup!

Roses & Eustomia

Pink & Red. This will be my theme colour, finally. Weng Hoa Flower Boutique is located at Chinatown aka Petaling Street, and is one of the top wholesalers in Malaysia specializing in fresh flowers and accessories. I have ordered my flowers with them, and although I can't see any designs yet - I am putting my trust on this lady whom says she will kao tim for me. Of course, she showed me some samples from her bridal collections, but she can't exactly tell me the exact design...yet.

So, I have ordered:
1) 6 flower stand + candles
2) 1 flower arrangement for VIP table + candles
3) 1 flower arrangement for reception
4) 10 wrist corsages

So little, and yet, already cost me RM 1,210/=. Wahliao eh. Lady asked me to forgo arrangement at guest table as it will cost me at least RM30 per table. *Ahem* This means additional RM600/=. Instead, she asked me to buy from IKEA 3 tealight candles, and sprinkle rose petals on the table. As the restaurant already provided an arch (although it is artificial flower), I get to save some $$ there.

Hopefully, it will turn out nice. Cross my fingers :)

The ONE






Yes! The ONE!

It cost me an additional RM700/= but it is worth every single cent for the ONE. It was quoted at RM1,200/= initially and managed to bargain until RM700/=. The ONE. It is a MUST have. It is a ONCE in a LIFETIME thingy. The ONE.

It was a Sunday morning, and I arrived at GTC to have one last fitting of a wedding gown that I dreamt almost every night after I signed up with De Casamia. It is a crucial decision making for me as I already have a wedding gown from De Casamia. "Don't waste your $$ lah" - my girlfriend told me. I decided to bring my mum along this time, as only she will tell me the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Looked for Ms May, my SA and she quickly took The ONE and put it on me. And my mum initial reaction was...."AIYO, NOT NICE LAH". I was like.."Hah?" Mum continued, "The gown is nice, but it doesn't look nice on you. Look *** lah." That's it. I have decided...no more the ONE. It is not as nice as it appears to be in my dream. Yeah, dream :P

However, dearest SA refused to give up this sale...instead, brought us down to the so-called "Designer Gowns" located at the bottom of the shop. A secret pathway. And my oh my, the gowns are AWESOME!!! And immediately, I fell in love with The ONE. A new one. Hehe.

Now, why do I call it The ONE? Well, it is simple. When I put on this gown, I somehow have this magical feeling that I am finally, THE BRIDE. I feel really "bridey". Hehe. Can't explain. I don't feel it with the numerous gown that I have tried before this, not even the one that I confirmed at Casamia. But this one, this is The ONE. (although it is the 2nd The One laa). And most importantly, my mum said "Ok, you MUST have this!" Yipppeeee!!!

Ms May can see the excitement on my face, and she knew, she will close a sale today!

De Casamia

OMG! I actually signed up a Bridal Package! OMG x 2! Here's the link: http://www.de-casamia.com/

Before this, I was 101% adamant that I would only rent gowns and not take up any package as I REALLY don't feel like taking photos. Especially those that you need to wear silly clothes and pretend that you are someone whom you are not! Haha...

But when someone helped you to put on a gown, and ask you to stand on a platform looking at the big mirror in front of you...for one moment, you do feel like a princess. Hah..in fact, I feel as though I am the Cinderella in those fairy tale movie!

Ok, back to reality. I have to tone up my arms. Shed lotz of weight and wear really high heels. All in 2 month's time. Perhaps a little too ambitious here...but what the heck. No harm trying geh...kekeke.

The package I signed up costs RM 3,688/=. I hope it is nett. I already told myself, I am NOT going to add anymore photos cuz, it will just end up in the photo album. So, I have to constantly remind myself of this. Never fall into the trap! I decided on this package because of the beautiful designed photo album which was shown to me. Instead of those regular full page photo, they compile few photos together and give it a superb effect! Luv it.

And oh...the prince and princess live happily ever after....

The Hunt Begins..

Hunting for Wedding Gown that is...people around me is freaking me out. Everyone is telling me just how little time I have. Errm... 2 months ++ .... still lots of time to me :P

Anyway! My girlfriend pushed me to go hunting for gowns. And that is what I did today! From the bridal forum, I got to know that custom made gowns are quite affordable too! So, made up my mind to check out this shop (http://www.neuweddinggown.com/). It was located in PJ, same row with RHB Bank in SS2.

The gown selection was so so limited! And they have even more limited selection for my size :P I was totally disappointed! The lady (only lady, could be the owner) gave me a CD which has 1,001 designs for me to choose. She said, they can tailormade the wedding gown for me. Price range from RM600 to RM 1,000. Quite reasonable..but too bad, no trial!

Next, we headed to JUST WARDROBE located in Damansara Uptown. Again, limited choices and size! I gave them my number and they will call once they have stocks! Aiihhh....imagine...this bride has no gown!

My girlfriend didn't give up, she suggested instead of buying the gown, perhaps we should rent from bridal houses. Without hesitation, we headed straight to Jalan Ipoh. It started to rain. Our criteria now will be those big bridal houses, as they should have more choices. First stop, Taipei Taipan. What a name :P When we stepped into this bridal house, we were impressed. It is beautiful and professionally designed. Spacious. And yay, they have gowns MY size.


The SA lead us to this special room and I tried on many gowns. Many. The SA was so patience, and I really appreciate her effort. I finally settled for 1 WG and 1 EG and we sat down to negotiate for the price. And voila, RM 1,000 for 1 WG, 1 EG and 1 coat for my hubby. Of course the SA tried to sell me some package which includes photography, etc for only RM 1,988 (most basic)...and she was cool when I told her that I need to discuss with my hubby. :) I was so happy that finally, there is a gown that fits me.

My girlfriend, who was pregnant, suggest that we go for more bridal studio and check them out. The 2nd studio, it has 3 floors. Wow! But gosh, the gowns were so old fashion!! And the SA was soooo unprofessional. The gowns she picked was so ugly! Yucks. Reluctantly, I tried them on, and my girlfriend was like "Yucks!". So, I told the SA that it wasn't suitable...err...thank you for your time..but she insist....she said, "Let me bring you to our Designer Gown Area". Well..ok. And...OMG, it was equally ugly. :P So, I put back my clothes, thank her for assistance, and this girl...while in the lift, asked me.."Let me introduce to you our packages laa, maybe you will be interested!" I was like...."Huh?" Puzzled. I have to tell her straight that, "I think you don't need to waste your time, because I don't even like the gowns!" I tell her nicely of course. And off we go!

Time flies! 5 hours gone...next GTC Bridal. My girlfriend told me it has been there for 10 years! Wahh...ok. One of the horror stories I heard of bridal houses is that, they exist for few years and they will close due to bad reputation, and then start a new one. Same boss. Sometimes, same location, just different name! This bridal house is not really big, but seems to have many gowns. One SA attended to us, she looks very experience. She asked us to wait upstairs and she will bring the gowns for me to try on.

Oops, the gown looks familiar! It was the SAME WG that I picked from the 1st bridal. And the EG, I saw the same one too. And I think, lights has a lot of effect. Cuz,the 2nd time I try on the same WG, it wasn't as nice! Hmmm.

So, again, I tried on at least about 10 pcs...and finally, there was this ONE piece that I fell in love with! Yay! Too bad they don't allow to take pictures...it was a new gown, it glitters, and have a long beautiful trail behind. And the new EG, looks good too :) And the price, also down to RM 1,000/=. Yippee Yay! But women, being women...we refuse to sign a confirmation, with the same old reason...I need to consult dearest hubby! And the SA was very polite :) Nice service!

We call it a day....I have made up my mind, based on today's experience, I will sign up with GTC!

Our ROM

13th Nov was our preferred date. This was the day we "officially" hold hands to become BF & GF. It was so many years back, but the memories are still fresh inside us. Sweet :)

Too bad it was a Thursday. JPN Putrajaya doesn't conduct ROM on this day! Hmm. How about "Thean Thou Temple?" Well, I went there previously and it was so crowded and crammed :( Then, I heard of "ROM outside"....huh? Outside? Apparently, you can hire a ROM officer to your own venue! Wow! This is something new! Pay about RM500 and you can ROM at your own venue! Wow!

This is my plan...perhaps I can ROM on AD itself! It would be so meaningful! I can wear my wedding gown and ROM! Photos taken with everyone around me :)

Then, I thought about uncle, my FH dad. He would have difficulties to climb up the stairs to our little apartment IF we were to ROM at our home. It might also be too crammed cuz there would be lots of people! Hmmm.

So, maybe it wasn't a good idea after all. My FH wants his dad to witness our ROM. Hmm...

Ok laaa...decided to go to Putrajaya. Now, have to fix a date and submit the form.

Next week, must do it! No more delay!